It has always been a challenge for me to read a book in which I find an opinion different from my own. On the other hand I believe it is important that I read such books because they help me to see a different perspective. But for the first time I am leading a study on a book that some might call controversial. Now this is really a stretch for me as well as for the people in the study.
I have discovered that many times we only read the writings of those who reflect our opinion and there by reinforce what we already are sure about.
Some people have told me it is very dangerous to read books that propose an ideology that is different from one's own because they are proposing an incorrect view of things. I would agree such an approach is dangerous but to the extent one see the other side as having a point and one might actually end entering into dialogue with that person.
We are living in a world in which looks at ideas with the view my opinion is the only one that matters. The result is an increasing division between people of differing opinions. The result is we no longer listen to one another and we only time we speak to the other side is by shouting louder to be heard.
When I look at the opinions of others and really try to understand I see a person with rights and responsibilities, another human being, rather than see an obstacle to be overcome.
Although it may be difficult it is really worth the effort because in the end i grow closer to those around me.